This is it! This is the month future-you will look back on and think, “Why?” “Why didn’t I start back then? Even something small?”
I’m talking about fall and winter holidays y’all.
Some of you get giddy, imagining your favorite holiday moments: “Where is my Santa mug?!?”
The rest of us let out an exasperated, “REALLY?” when we walk into Hob Lobs in July and we’re met with SO many Christmas aisles. (I seriously think it was 107° outside our desert location.)
But yes. The holidays are coming. And whatever you feel about that inevitability, it’s time for . . .
THE FALL FIX-UP
Having been around this block several times now, I have some recommendations:
1. Clean Up Stray Piles:

Photo by Camilo Rueda Lopez on Unsplash
Whether it’s a big summer project that looked oh-so-possible back in May or remnants of random, clean it up.
Ask yourself, “Am I really going to digitize my child’s entire school career of artwork before the end of the year? Mark that project on your 2027 calendar and move on with your life.
As our family is fond of saying,
“Shove it on back!”
You’re about to encounter a spectrum of chaos that will not clear until January. Maybe.

2. Consider what makes you happy.
What do you enjoy about the fall? Invite it into your home! Certain tastes, smells, textures (fuzzy blankets!)? Whatever gives you the warm fuzzies about the season, represent it in your home.
What does your family enjoy about the fall? Maybe each person gets to choose something happy for the home: a stash of hot cocoa mix, a bigger pumpkin than last year, cinnamon pinecones, or a bowl of fall leaves (revered, here in the desert).
3. Work with what you have.
There is a moment approaching when you will get drugged by the cinnamon scents and twinkling lights and buy your 212th ornament, even though you swore you wouldn’t. It’s inevitable and, perhaps, what we enjoy most–being swept away.

But here, in your September rationalism, get excited about what you have. Slap a new bow on that fake pumpkin you’ve pulled out for years > Reborn!
What do you already find beautiful? Introduce it to something fall-ish.
Fill that beautiful soup tureen with mini-pumpkins; add mums to the vase your mom gave you; cover a throw pillow with a velvet slipcover that exudes cozy. Notice the colors you already use in your home and choose their darker hues to say, “It’s Fall Y’all!”
Flowers, ribbons, ceramics, a picture frame (with an actual printed picture–WOW) or favorite quote, can be added or swapped out with their lighter counterparts to herald fall warmth.
The Fall Fix-Up can be a small or as in-depth as your energy and time allow. Because whatever your investment, markers (like seasonal decor) help our hearts and minds make smooth transitions.
So, hop to! It’s-a-comin’!

Practically, it leaves a spot for a good book, during one of those relaxing bubble baths we all dream about. Sigh.

However, I grew attached to them there and how they took advantage of the high ceilings, so I’ve only added to the display.
Most floor-length curtain panels are 84 or 95 inches (with 108″ and 120″ available on more specialized sites). When buying new curtains, measure the distance between the top of your window and the floor, and purchase the next size up. To determine where to mount the rod, place it above the top of the window at the height which allows the bottom of the curtain to just dust the floor.


If you’re alarmed by what you find, remember the plethora of shades that color represents. For example, I do NOT have fond feelings toward crayon orange (the color opposite blue on the color wheel), but I wouldn’t mind a cheerful coral coming to visit. A few inexpensive accessories in this new color give the room a little more punch.

A new lamp is a great option too, but if it’s in good shape, just change the shade. [Note: Know which kind of shade your lamp accepts BEFORE you go shopping. (ie. a harp, spider, clip-on, etc.) It will save you lots of frustration.]
what you currently have. There are even light bulbs that have a dimmer switch (right on the bulb, so nothing to install!) for rooms that require task and mood lighting.
Have you read the studies that suggest people who consistently spend 30 minutes outside live happier lives? I think nature speaks to a primal need for beauty etched on our souls. A simple bouquet of flowers–real or quality artificials–have a surprising capacity to evoke happiness. If you have a Trader Joe’s nearby, they usually have beautiful flowers and plants at very reasonable prices.